Thanks for joining us for our interview series 'A Tryst With'. Today we're joined by Washington DC escort, the exquisite Sasha Blakes.
Can you tell us your ‘origin’ story as a sex worker?
My sex work journey started about 7 years ago. I was attending college where I was completely broke and working a bunch of dead end jobs that didn’t bring me much joy or happiness. One day I met a friend that attended the same school as I did, and she asked me did I want to do a duo with one of her regular clients and that he pays very well.
I was all for it, lol. It was the most money I had ever made in one night. I was excited about choosing sex work, and was the happiest I have ever been when I got into it. I performed, met new people and learned from them all the time. I helped people and made people happy. I became better at doing my makeup, I got fit and more confident in myself. I made a few friends, was able to afford to look after myself, and spoil my loved ones. Best choice I ever made.
What is your favorite part of sex work culture? What communities, people, places, and memories are important to you as a sex worker?
Before sex work became a trend to talk about on social media and build platforms, it was more like a secret society. Most sex workers were forced to be quiet about the lifestyle because of self incrimination. We had parties and events that were invite only and if you didn't know the host or the party planner you couldn't come.
Is there anything you think the general public should learn from sex workers?
Sex workers are normal people. We have families and friends that care about us. Some of us come from really good backgrounds, and some from bad backgrounds.. Some of us have children and we support them by sex work. A lot of us have other streams of income and/or go to school. Some of us who’ve been in the lifestyle are wanting to start our own businesses and get out the lifestyle.
Is there anyone in the industry you consider a role model or someone you looked up to when you first started your journey?
There’s many great women of the sex industry to look up to and be inspired by. I would say the most current one is Cardi B, because she started in the strip club like so many sex workers. She was known in New York for the authentic following she gained by being her humorous self. She was brave by being open about her life as a stripper and now she is one of the most famous rap artist in the industry. She came from a stripper in the Bronx to being a millionaire recording artist. She gave hope to A LOT of women, especially dancers, that they have opportunities to get out the lifestyle if they want and be successful.
What’s the most important thing that potential clients need to understand about you, your identity, and the experiences of Black sex workers?
Being a black sex worker, I do think it’s been harder for me in this industry. However, within this industry, I do also recognize my own privileges. I’m beautiful, I’m educated. I have a good following on Twitter and instagram, and that has meant that I’m fairly consistent with work.
What has sex work taught you about yourself?
Becoming a sex worker has taught me a new found confidence. Something about knowing I can get what I want out a man regardless if I have sexual relations or not really boosts my self esteem. I get another way of financial freedom that can have no limits, especially if I meet the right client. I also feel sexual liberation that gives me control over my body and who I decide to share it with. I get paid for my time and energy and I love that about my sex work.
What’s one myth about sex work or sex workers that you’d like to bust?
That we are DIRTY and that we don’t have self respect. Biggest myth is that sex workers have STDS. Another myth is that we don't have respect towards ourselves. We risk our lives to create financial stability and help men with sexual desires that civilians can't, and to say we don’t respect ourselves is very misleading. We create a society to help most men and women who don’t have a safe space to fulfill their sexual fantasy, and for a relatively affordable transaction. I feel we are very intelligent and righteous.
Do you find that there is a type of client who seeks you out, who you really enjoy seeing?
I love dating older rich men who are very generous and kind. Race is not a factor for me, I love being pampered. Being able to ask for any amount of money I desire. I love meeting people who are kind and respectful. Also, I like meeting athletes and people with high social status. It makes me feel important and gives me confidence to know I am attractive to attractive people!
For clients visiting from out of state, what’s something fun you can do together around town?
I am a traveling provider but I’m mainly based out of Atlanta GA. There are so many great things to do here and beautiful restaurants. My favorite is definitely Nubo, I love Japanese cuisine. Buckhead shops is another fav, all the top designer stores are located there. If my client is looking for something more relaxing, the spa at Waldorf Astoria Buckhead is a great luxury relaxing experience
Do you play music during your work? What are your top 4 playlists, artists, or albums for setting the mood during sessions?
Yes, I love music during sessions, if my clients are okay with it. Some get distracted by music and it throws their mood off. I like to be accommodating if it is a well paying client. If I do play music it would be old school soul music, SZA, Brent Faiyaz, or Sade! I always get the right energy and vibes listening to the music I choose.
What’s your favorite way to relax and recharge after a long week?
My favorite way to relax is to go get my nails and hair done. You can't go wrong with a fresh mani pedi to start the week off. I love doing self care days and relaxation days to keep my spirits high. I also love going out partying with friends, grabbing drinks, and dancing to the latest trends!
What do you like to do outside of work?
I love reading, exercising, traveling to new places, trying new restaurants, shopping, and taking beautiful photos.
If you want to win my heart you must: Nice gestures –gifts, flowers, nice champagne, expensive wine, bringing me my favorite foods.
The nicest place I’ve ever been is: I been to a few nice place but one of my favorites has to be a Napa Valley winery tour in California.
I feel most sexy when: Smelling good is my thing. I wear a different fragrance every day. I get compliments daily about my scent from men and women alike, and it makes me feel sexy, confident, strong. And when you feel sexy, confident and strong, you feel like there isn’t anything you can’t do.
My biggest pet peeve is: Not introducing yourself when contacting me.
My ideal date would consist of: I love to go traveling, so 2 days in Miami, 4 in Jamaica, and 7 days in Turks and Caicos Islands.
My favorite lingerie brand is: Savage x Fenty, Fredericks of Hollywood.
In the future, I plan to: Owning multiple businesses. Also pursuing a career in acting.
My social handles are:
twitter.com/sashablakes
Instagram @iam.sashablakes
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