Hello and welcome back to our provider interview series 'A Tryst With...' We're so happy to have you! Today we're catching up with New York BDSM provider Goddess Hunter.
You’re a BDSM Provider. How did you find your way here, and what has that been like for you?
When I was in middle school I had a bunch of guy friends and we would watch the BME pain olympics, “1 guy 1 jar”, House of a Thousand Corpses, Wrestlemania clips, and stuff like that. I also had a femme BFF show Me hentai & kink porn at the same time. Then I was a latchkey kid playing RPGS constantly, so that’s probably where My role-play obsession came from!
As soon as I turned 18, I started on a popular cam site. I would only work the days right before I got paid, which was twice a month. I would do private shows and then get off because I didn’t really like it and I didn’t know how to be submissive online. The voyeurism and power play was the part I did enjoy.
When I was 21, a friend of Mine helped Me get a job at a commercial dungeon. I worked there for about 2 years, but then I went independent over COVID and haven’t looked back since.
How do you bring your own personality and personal style to your kink work?
I am very picky with who serves me so our interests must align. Nothing is more exciting than meeting someone new and your personalities just perfectly click with each other. I am not a drill-sergeant-type-strict domme, but I am a sadist. I love to take someone to their limits but we need to be laughing and having fun as well.
My personality comes out most with aftercare, but that varies with everyone and what their form of aftercare looks like. I love this adaptation of meeting new people and learning about them. There’s a scene in House of a Thousand Corpses where Sherri goes, “Hey poopy pants!” before cutting her victim and one of My subs said that was My energy, hahaha.
Roleplay and hyper-specific roleplay are specialties of yours - can you tell us a little about this kind of kink work? How did you discover these kinks and what do you enjoy about them?
The crazier the scenario, the better. The more taboo, the better. I love to have a theme or roleplay to build a scene from.
A particular client and I always do some sort of “anti-hero” scene, but that can unravel in many different ways. One day I am the cheerleader, next time I am a femdom supervillain called “The Huntress”, next time I am a CEO of a company he just got hired for – before realizing it’s (oh no!) his highschool bully! (ahhHh!!!)
You mention that you’re ‘licensed to hold a blade’. How did you get into haircutting and shave fetishism?
I am a licensed barber! However, I was learning/apprenticing right before COVID hit. I felt a lot of setbacks from not being able to cut hair for a bit, and then had male mentors getting frustrated with me for not catching on quicker than My other peers. I went at My own pace which was not fast enough for a shop, but I still went and got licensed!
My favorite clip I ever made was called “Say Goodbye to your Ego”, and it’s a POV on shaving the viewer completely bald and feminization. It got taken down on most sites because I am holding a straight razor and I suppose that looks like a weapon.
I love the feeling of a fresh blade in a straight razor sliding across someone’s face and making them baby smooth. I find it really hot to be able to transform a person into someone new, especially for bimbofication sessions. Also… anyone holding a straight razor is automatically sexier, so of course I had to learn!
Clown fetishism and bimbofication feel a bit like different sides of the same coin. Can you tell us where your fascination with the over-the-top comes from?
It definitely ties into the roleplay and world creating, as well as transformation. I am recently realizing My clown fetish might stem from House of a Thousand Corpses? Who knows, but I have always had a clown fetish. It encapsulates much more than people realize: wet and messy play (WAM/sploshing), balloons, dress up, voyeurism, public humiliation, roleplay, hiding your identity, etc. I’ve also added things like predicament play, bondage, hazing, etc. It’s everything to Me.
Bimbofication is feminization, but specifically into a “bimbo” which tends to be the brainless/airhead persona of being submissive and doing whatever Daddy wants. Acting slutty feels good – It’s all about taking back the word and making it fun!
How have sites like OnlyFans changed the way you work?
I actually had no social media presence when I first started, because it overwhelmed Me, but then OF blew up during COVID. I couldn’t do in-person sessions so it was My only option.
I use phone call websites, texting websites, clip selling, etc. But I really prefer in-person sessions. I prefer more intimacy, patience, and care, and that comes across very incorrectly when you aren’t in the same room as someone.
For content-creating in general though, you have to spend a lot of money to make money. It’s not as fast of a process as some people make it seem. I always say that you can’t live in NY unless you have a couple of side hustles.
There are so many options when it comes to the styles and aesthetics of video content - what do you like to shoot and are there any particular styles you like to shoot in?
Best advice I can give anyone in life is if you have an idea: write it down immediately! It will grow and grow into more. For example, I was just visiting someone with this beat-up barn and was like wow, this would make a great location for a hostage clip. So I wrote it down in My phone where I could see it all the time. Eventually, you bring that to fruition.
I also just like shooting with someone who understands My vision, too. My favorite photographer to shoot with is Maria La Sangre because I can say, “Let’s do sexy trashy clown, but not corny like Harley Quinn,” and she just knows exactly what to do.
How has your content creation contributed to your in-person career?
With the money I make with content, I can buy more things for educating Myself. I believe the most important thing to do in life is constantly challenge yourself and learn as much as you can. You need to hustle hard with this job to be successful. Consistency is key – to every job.
You offer your services to couples - what does a couple need to know before they approach you? Any etiquette tips?
You must be 100% sure that both partners want to see a provider, and then you have to establish what you want to get from it. It’s a long conversation for the couple and the provider. Let’s all establish everyone’s equal desires in the same room together. For example, maybe someone feels a little shy to tell their play partner something, but when I’m there, they can mention they are curious about it because they understand I am a professional who has heard it all. Couple play is about consent, established boundaries, experimenting in a green flag area, and being EXCITED and fulfilled.
I absolutely love when couples come prepared with their own outfits. That’s such an easy way to get into the zone for roleplay easier, and who doesn’t love a little surprise?!
What’s your favorite book, movie, TV show at the moment? Do you have a favourite piece of sex work-related media?
Right now, I am making all of My submissives read Mastery by Robert Greene. It makes Me want to perfect My craft and be the best I can be at what I love – just to do so. Not for fame, or attention, or money. It talks about how our society has forgotten the importance of mastering something just to master it. I love anything motivational or inspiring like that – I’m a virgo.
My favorite movie of all time is Hellraiser, but I also love how kink and suburban-taboo-coded that Society (1989) is. I am really more of a documentary person, though – as you can tell, I love to learn and learn and learn. I haven’t found a favorite sex work-related media, but would love suggestions! Anything I have seen depicting a dominatrix, however, has been lacking a lot of important information about self-care, longterm d/s, consent of all parties, more advanced skills, etc, or includes way too much kink-shaming.
What are your top 4 playlists, artists, or albums for setting the mood during sessions?
I have like 40+ playlists I have made for sessions! I most frequently use one I call “torture” which is some of my favorite classical music that is very gentle. Then I have ones named like “fun piggy/bad piggy”, which is mostly techno and industrial; “beautiful pain songs”, which includes “Can’t Take my Eyes off of You” by Frankie Valli and The Four Seasons; a playlist that is more samba/jazz focused; of course one with clown music; and another that’s more poppy for the bimbo sessions. Those are some of my most used ones!
A lot of sex workers are known to be perpetually online, can you share one of your favourite clips/websites/memes/meme accounts?
Hahaha I love shitposting honestly. One of my favorite pictures I saw online was a cropped pornhub comment that said, “I like that she’s a little ugly”, and I just love it because YEAH! I am not attracted to people who look quote unquote “perfect” or too polished. And it reminds me that I also don’t need to be too polished to be successful. I prefer to watch porn that I can relate to or that people in my community are in.
I also love “cringe” and any form of media that makes Me uncomfortable for some reason.
My favorite fetish-wear brand is: HW Design for latex.
My favorite food is: The scallops from Scarpetta’s in Nomad or a high quality lobster bisque.
One of my everyday hobbies is: walking My cat
My favorite piece of kink equipment is: Zoom H5 handy recorder – My secret weapon. If you know, you know.
My greatest turn-on is: A well thought-out gift or a text out of the blue like, “I can’t stop thinking of you.”
My social handles are:
Twitter: @hunternyc_
Instagram: @hunternyc_
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