Tell us your story, how did you get into the industry and what has your journey looked like thus far?
I was 17 when I made a promise to myself. I said; "No matter what I do, I'm never gonna get stuck behind a desk!" Fast forward two years, and I'm working for Apple, inside a miserable cubicle. I was still in school at the time, so I decided to quit and just do day-to-day labor for cash jobs. I was really down & out when I met a wealthy lady who took interest in me, and that began my first sugar experience. Afterwards, she started taking me to events where other pretty wealthy ladies took interest, and wanted to explore things with me. Eventually, I became New York's "premier" or "number one" Lesbian escort.
What are some of your hobbies and interests outside of work?
I like cars a lot. I love going to concerts and working with my hands. I'm actually a certified automotive technician. I've been going to car shows forever, and not just to drum up business. I also just got back into archery and powerlifting. Great ways to get back in shape, and stay that way.
How long have you been playing guitar and who are some of your favorite musicians?
I've been playing on and off since I was about 16. I love me some Jimi Hendrix, or SRV, or EVH, even Lita Ford! I started playing blues first so I took an interest in Lead Belly, Sister Rosetta Tharpe & BB King.
What are some benefits and draw backs of the sex industry?
I think the only drawbacks are legal obstacles, and constant banning from social media. I'm having to fight Twitter just to get my account back because they allege that I've violated their terms, but they can't tell me which one.
When you're having a bad day, what do you do to make yourself feel better?
It's probably not the best behaviour, but I like to get drunk and blast sludge metal or some street punk. I'll take a can of spray paint and art to my heart's content.
Have you experienced the active prejudice that sex workers often face?
I have. It's mostly online, but I've had police threaten me with jail time if I didn't do them favors. I've had pimps stalk me to where I've had to shoot at them, or people share my personal information/place of employment online and show up to my home, my ex-wife's home and even my job. People see what they see on the internet, and refuse to acknowledge your autonomy.
How did FOSTA/SESTA affect you and what did you see happen in the community?
I saw a lot of people get displaced. Girls I used to work with went back to the streets, and the boys started looking for pimps to help them out.
As a lesbian escort, I lost 99.9% of our exclusive places to advertise online. It was easier for me to host ads on exclusively Lesbian sites, because there aren't too many places with ladies as their target audience, and so on the "regular" sites, we just kinda get glossed over by the providers who appeal more to men. That made freestyling the #1 way for Lesbian escorts to get clients, but then covid hit and everything pretty much just became impossible.
People started losing their cars, their homes, some had to seek more dangerous forms of employment. It sucked HARD.
What is something you're currently excited about?
Getting back into the gym and getting my strength back. Transforming my body into the powerhouse it was always supposed to be. I spent this year in quarantine, picking up bad habits, but I'm ready to get back to myself again.
As sex workers we face a number of challenges in our line of work. What is one issue you care about and how do you think your clients can help sex workers?
I think the biggest issue is disorganization. We're scattered in thought and theory, so we're not even really able to help ourselves and our comrades. What's most important, I think, is unionizing so we could have a meeting of the minds, and establish some kind of whore's code for us to be able to protect ourselves. There are far too many predators for any of us to try to walk this alone.
Is there anyone in the industry you consider a role model or someone you looked up to when you first started your journey?
I never really liked the idea of a role model, because I'm an anarchist through and through. But I've always admired activist hookers, or the pornstars that got out there mid-career, and started advocating for things like unionization or the decriminalization of sex work.
What would your dream date look like?
It'd have to be on a California beach, with a mature, leggy redhead. She'd be soft spoken with a Southern accent, and I'd have the place staged with lights, wines, champagne, music, candles and various flowers. I'd just spoil her, and we'd spend the entire night together.
My favorite scent is:
Natural, feminine scents (flowers, herbs, etc.)
My favorite restaurant is:
Any kind of speakeasy from the prohibition era.
If you wanted to buy me a drink, you should buy me a:
Shot of Jack
The dorkiest thing about me is:
I'm a whore for algebra... Literally.
My favorite color is:
Purple or Black, depending on my mood.
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