My loves, hello! As always, welcome back to A Tryst With, our sex worker interview series. Today I was lucky enough to have a chat with the lovely Toronto Escort, Florence Yi!
Tell us your story, how did you get into the industry and what has your journey looked like thus far?
I was looking for a high and quick paying side gig while going through my first year university on top of my full time schooling as well as my part time job in customer service, something like modeling, and was intrigued by what might be out there. I quickly found myself interviewing and signing up for a profile under an agency. With my first ever client, I couldn’t stop squirting and ran over time - I didn’t know how to gently direct the client that it was time to go, and I was just so turned on by this stranger desiring me so badly.
Over the years I paid my way through university degrees, and eventually decided to go independent. I’ve been able to continue funding various business ventures, travel/shopping excursions and hobbies alike. I’ve been fortunate to save a few pennies for longer term planning and investing. In recent years, I feel I’ve evolved to re-branded my identity that merges my sex work life as well as my civilian life. I’ve become a more authentic version of myself that accepts and loves all I have to bring to the table as a whole person - and I can’t wait to share this version of myself with others, whether it be a new sexy client relationship, perhaps a personal love interest I am pursuing, or a special friendship in or out of the industry. Sex work and all the beautiful connections that I create and curate is not only my full time passion and consciously chosen career path - it’s my muse, my inspiration and my aspiration for years to come.
What do you think about the way sex workers are viewed in society?
We don’t like it. Simply. But we do stay highly profitable because of it.
There’s no point in focusing or discussing how the general public views us - we all know about the overwhelming and overrated stigma and negativity weighing and veiling our professions. I’m not deferring but I do believe this question merits a whole psychosocial/societal examination of gender roles and misogyny to even begin to chip at the topic - which I am not qualified to do. It also bores me. Though there’s probably massive differing subtleties in north american versus european and even middle eastern/asian cultures surrounding the sex industry. Not to mention across different services and capacities, even within sex work. Heterosexual male sex workers get a way different rep than female sex workers, for instance. What’s important is how I choose to view sex workers, and how I view myself, and the sex workers in the community who I choose to surround myself with. I see us as powerful, empowering, deeply beautiful, nurturing, compassionate, passionate, driven, creative, fun, and just business savvy people.
What’s an aspect of being a sex worker that you really love?
Power as a woman, agency of choice, sexual liberation, financial freedom, mixing desire, thrill, passion, money, and fun. Just so much. It’s all life and living
What’s one myth about Sex Work or Sex Workers you’d like to bust?
I don't want to go so far to glamourize my work nor misrepresent it as a whole neither, but I can only tell my story which has been an empowering self discovery journey of love, body discovery, spiritual and emotional energy alignment and self confidence boosting. Oh, this is a good one - I think one thing many clients don’t understand nor appreciate is that sometimes we want what they want. We like it that we can come to the appointment and be a different person, less problems or worries or stresses, maybe a more sexy and desired person than in our civilian life, someone who matters deeply in someone else’s eyes in the light that I wish for them to see me, for the hour that is, and none of the other obligations or hangups that typical relationships may come with.
Is there a book, blog, tv show or movie that has had a major impact on your life? What was it and what did it teach you?
Memoirs of a geisha - to entertain, to create meaning, to anticipate and make one’s life toward a goal, toward a person, toward a love. As a younger impressionable person, I was enraptured with this story. The human motifs explored such as jealousy, humility and living within one’s circumstances, fight and spirit, ambition and creating passion in the work we do, it all resonated so much. The yearning and the hope associated with the dreams as well. I’ve rewatched this story many times each with renewed interest. I hope one day I will have great stories to tell as an older woman.
What’s your favorite way to relax and recharge after a long week?
It depends what I need recharging from, sometimes work recharges me - the appointments that offer massive orgasms anyway - and sometimes small doses of space and self love get me right back on track. I’m not a huge spa day type of gal, but I love some shopping therapy. More often than not, being on top of all my housekeeping, a good sleep, and an inspiring romantic comedy Netflix special with fuzzy socks gets me.
What are your hobbies and interests outside of work?
Friendships, music, gym, discovering new foods and cultures. Discovering myself through new adventures and experiences.
What’s your favorite location to tour or place to visit, and what would recommend doing there?
I haven’t made it my business model to tour much, though I’ve been to Vancouver on a few occasions. I look forward to touring in vibrant and cosmopolitan cities such as Dubai, London, and Sydney in the future. I’ve recently been to Niagara Falls to tour on a couple occasions due to chasing a boy. We’ll see how that turns out.
My ideal date would consist of: Great conversation over great food and great wine, amidst great ambiance. Refined, elegant, etiquette. I look ravishing, and he knows it, as does everyone else in the room. Perhaps a live pianist or vocalist. Candles and florals. He’s come to pick me up, opened all the doors, only touched me in ways that make could be interpreted as respectful to others yet has caused me to desire him in secret turmoil. He’s worn cologne. His eyes dance on my body. I don’t even notice the bill, he’s so quick to make it disappear. He’s shown so much control and reserve that it makes me go crazy. I want him by the end of our evening, and I want him to take me.
If you want to buy me a drink, you could order a:Californian cabernet sauvignon. Old world italians. Japanese Whiskey. Something with egg white and fresh herb, less than 3 ounces. And for the love of sex, no small ice cubes, EVER. Either one large one or neat, none at all.
The dorkiest thing about me is: I’m actually a huge kid at heart, i love to be unencumbered when expressing myself. I choose to see things positively, even naively, and I’m sure that pisses practical people. I used to be such a practical person, now I choose to be happy.
What is your favourite thing to be gifted: I love large bouquets of flowers, they are always so romantic and feminine. A shopping spree at a favourite store. An exclusive experience for myself and a girlfriend to enjoy - perhaps an impressive spa day or flight tickets and hotel credits somewhere desirable. I like to be impressed by the masculine.
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