Welcome back to 'A Tryst With', our sex worker interview series. We're joined this time by Eureka Dominatrix Kaya Anais!
How did you get into the industry and what does your journey look like so far?
I performed as a dancer for 16 years before becoming a chat model in the early 2000's. Over time, I followed a different path and became a medical massage therapist, leaving behind the adult industry.
The fates had other plans in 2013 when a shoulder injury ended my career as a massage therapist. That was a very hard time for me, because I loved what I did. While recovering, I enrolled in a 2-year training course at the Hypnosis Motivation Institute.
I discovered my interest in female dominance while exploring my own nature and decided to put an ad on Craigslist. After a few sessions, I discovered I loved dominating people but that to be a good Dominatrix, I needed training. After searching for a while I came across Mistress Tara Indiana in LA. Soon after taking a few of her classes, I requested an apprenticeship, and the rest is history.
My goal is to continually refine my femdom methods, learning from other Female Dominatrices, and experimenting with my submissives.
As I look forward to the future, there is nothing else I’d rather do than dominate and objectify males for My own entertainment and financial benefit.
What is your Mistress ‘style’?
I am sensual and I enjoy taking control of My slave. I take pleasure from My slaves’ pain and suffering and I am always Queen, the one you adore and worship for the rest of your life.
You offer erotic hypnosis as a service. Can you tell us a little about how you got into this and what it means to you?
When I started taking classes for hypnosis I fully intended to become a traditional hypnotist, but I had begun training with Mistress Tara Indiana and eventually decided that I wanted to use hypnosis to explore BDSM and mind control.
What are some other fetishes you love to explore with clients?
Sounding, tease & denial with chastity training, spanking/corporal punishment, tickle torture, and medical play to name a few.
Do you have any fetishes yourself?
What turns me on the most is controlling my slaves and turning them into helpless objects made to suffer, work, and breathe for Me.
Do you find that there is a type of client who seeks you out, who you really enjoy seeing?
A lot of clients enjoy letting go of life and focusing on my voice, feeling mindless, and are usually service oriented. In person it is much the same, most of my long term submissives are service submissives who enjoy doing things for Me. They are usually looking to serve only one woman and often looking for an ebony Goddess who is into hypnosis, foot fetish, and financial domination.
What does your workspace look like?
I have a quaint space to play, and I enjoy being able to play with lifestyle/reverse 50's housewife themes. I have it set up for easy break down in between, so it is not a full dungeon yet.
Do you have a favorite piece of furniture or equipment?
Two of my favorite pieces are a spanking/pegging bench and a leather bondage table perfect for strapping a slave down. I have a lot of room to grow though, for any furniture and equipment makers out there. When I travel, I have My own bag of tricks that always includes a humbler, among other delights.
How do you deal with the emotional and physiological highs and lows of domination?
I like to take time before a session to think about what I want to do and meditate so that I can be present in My sessions. After a session, I focus on the moment I am in and allow my body to tell me what it needs, which is usually food if it was a long session. Then I take a bath so I can soak, decompress, and process the wild, crazy, and fun activities I engage in.
What kinds of aftercare do you provide to yourself?
After a session I feel like I am on an amazing natural high, and as that fades away I can feel very low. I like to relax and unwind with a bath and spend some time thinking about the session and what I might wanna do differently in the next one, so that I can jot those things down for later. I find having some protein after a session is also helpful to bring me back to a grounded space.
What are some of your favorite fetish-wear brands?
Demask, Darkestfox.com, Honey Birdette, and Artifice Clothing are a few of my favorites.
Is there a common assumption people make about sex workers that really ticks you off?
There seems to be a theme that we are all here because it is the only thing we can do, trafficked into it, or that we are not capable of holding a job. Those people have no idea how hard we work, from marketing, to website design and branding ourselves. We do it all, and most of us have learned on the fly. Sex workers are incredibly hard working people.
What’s the most important thing that potential clients need to understand about you, your identity, and the experiences of POC sex workers?
That I am here because I love what I do, I love the money I make doing it, and both those things are okay. I am an ebony goddess who is very proud of her identity and have learned it is important to embrace your nature. That is what I want to impart to my clients.
What’s your favorite way to relax and recharge after a long week?
A long bath, my favorite anime, Magic the Gathering, smoking cannabis, and spending time with friends.
What do you do for fun?
I am a foodie so going to fun new restaurants is always on my list. Hiking, spending time with family and friends, playing video and board games, knitting, antiquing, comedy clubs, and traveling are a few of the ways I enjoy my time.
What’s your favourite piece of art right now?
I have a few small pieces by @spiked.maskara on Instagram; if you're looking to do something special, reach out to her for Me, I would like some more of her paintings for My studio. I am always looking for art pieces.
Do you play music during your work?
Yes, usually, however I like having periods of no words and just focus on the session and experience.
What are your top 4 artists, or albums for setting the mood during sessions?
I use music to enhance the session and help deepen the mood so I often pick music strategically. Portishead - Dummy, Zero - 7 Simple Things, Thievery Corporation - Saudade.
Something that really annoys me is: Time wasting with endless emails, no shows, and those who ask questions that are already answered on my website.
The secret to getting to know me is: First sending a tribute to show your sincerity in not wasting my time, followed by a concise email telling me about you and what you want to feel in our session and what you have discovered on my site.
My greatest turn-on is: The total control of my surroundings, and the unwavering loyalty and obedience of my submissive.
A social cause I care about is: Sex worker advocacy.
In the future, I plan to: Have an even greater presence online, allowing my followers a peek into my world as I take control of their lives from near and afar and visit areas I have not seen yet.
I get a big thrill out of: having the total and complete devotion and obedience of My submissives.
My social handles are:
Twitter: Kaya_Anais
Instagram: Kaya_Anais
Facebook: MssKayaAnais
https://linktr.ee/MssKayaAnais
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