We're back with our interview series and taking another Tryst, this time with Atlanta ProDomme Kendra Allure!
What has your path looked like on your journey to where you are now in sex work as a ProDomme?
It looked pretty good, I would say! Being dominant is something that comes naturally to me so I fell into being a ProDomme pretty smoothly; now it’s just me learning new things and techniques along the way. Since I started doing sex work, I’ve been solo and never had any truly trying obstacles or people stand in my way of being better. I’ve met so many types of people who have also been helpful and guiding me to stay on the positive journey that I have been on.
Recently, I have connected with producers and models that will expand the journey that I am on with the fetishes and kinks that they perform with their audiences. It’s about every other month that I feel like I am still brand new to the ProDomme lifestyle and Fetish Model/Performer job. I only hope to continue going through this journey seamlessly.
What’s one myth about sex work or sex workers that you’d like to bust?
That we as sex workers are just promiscuous and with no morals or ethics. A lot of people outside of the industry believe this wholeheartedly and treat us as such with the main “excuse” being, “I treat you how you present yourself,” and etc. When in fact, the majority of sex workers are more keen to their bodies and hygiene on a monthly basis as we have to engage with different people in different capacities. We are more empathic and perceive way more outside of ourselves.
We are human like anyone else. We work like any other profession. We have voices and minds that work quite well; being in the industry requires a lot of mental and emotional self-awareness that most people don’t have in big name corporations.
What’s an aspect of being a sex worker and a ProDomme that you really love?
The freedom and possibilities that I can explore from different types of people and cultures, fetishes and kinks, and places around the globe when I travel. The learning is never ending and changing with society in each generation. I like to call myself a sapiosexual; I get more enjoyment from mental stimulation than through physical, so taking the role that I have allows me to fulfill my own desires freely.
I aim to please and fulfill the fantasies that producers, clients, and fans ask for, so seeing genuine satisfaction that is expressed is an aspect that I also love. Not many can manipulate pain or humiliation into a pleasurable experience and having that skill, in my opinion, is erotically dangerous and something I’m very proud of!
We saw you offer wrestling sessions! Is there some etiquette clients could bring to the table when approaching you for these services?
Yes indeed! First and foremost, clients need to approach with PROPER HYGIENE! I cannot stress this enough. You would be surprised how half clean some people are or just oblivious to their own bodies.
Secondly, potential clients should approach respectfully and not be cocky, as they are in their head when fantasizing about wrestling me. Also, be ready to provide proper identification and size measurements; I can tussle with the best of them but I have my limits. Now, I do have some hands-on experience and training in different types of fighting styles but the clients need to know that they are not booking a session just to “give me a beatdown”, the sessions are semi-competitive and they won’t leave unsatisfied.
Only other thing that they should have etiquette for or be mindful of is that with my complexion, I bruise easily so cuts and major bruising will cost you!
Tell us about your workspace. How do you set up your playspace for maximum fun and enjoyment?
Since I am really meticulous and organized as my friends would say, my workspace would reflect the same. First, the playspace would need to be cleaned and set up for that specific type of session or service. Then the tools that would be needed or even explored would be cleaned and placed within arms reach. I would also have things like water, electrolytes, and some energy snacks around for the client and I. I’m a snacker and part of taking care of my clients is making sure they stay hydrated and with enough energy to deal with me!
Wet wipes, gloves, paper towels, condoms, rubbing alcohol and things would be within reach as well for sanitary purposes. My playspace wouldn't be cluttered or distracting so the client would only have me to focus on!
Could you walk us through your process for shooting content?
Well, I regularly check my analytics on the platforms that I use so I know what’s doing well and what isn’t. I look at fan feedback and requests, or I will brainstorm some new things I would like to try. Outside of solo content, I have the help of what I call my “Roster Bodies”, or a circle of people that I like to collaborate with, whom I’d reach out to and we would coordinate on meeting up to make the content that I settle on. I’m a straightforward and goal-oriented person so I like to have a schedule down; what I’m shooting, duration of clips, premise or “script” if necessary.
When it comes down to the recording of the content, I like to do ‘one and done' clips to cut down on editing time and make it authentic as possible. When scenes aren’t forced and a fan can relate to it, then I have no doubt that people would enjoy it. I try to give a full enough experience that keeps you engaged and then wanting more. Whether I’m solo or working with another person, the energy has to be there otherwise the content and time is just wasted.
How have you seen trends change during your time making content?
Lack of quality and intent along with the idea that this is something that comes easy are the trends that I have seen.
More and more, content that is being produced has no quality to it. The easiest part is filming, but what makes it challenging is when you have to put effort behind it for just 5 to 10 minutes and even more effort for something longer than that. I see a lot of new creators not lasting in the field very long due to demand, comfortability within themselves, and then the fans or fellow creators being creepy or just disrespectful. But, like with anything else in the world, you have to work to get it and keep working and learning to maintain it.
Then there is the scamming! From the catfishing to fake female model pages being run by men, models taking money and not returning a product or service, fake STD/STI test results to access a space or obtain a job, fake “fans” who pirate and steal to make money off of names and content, and even creators faking numbers to make themselves look “better” to potential fans, fellow creators or ProDommes. It’s inevitable for there to be scamming, but I feel like it’s gotten so much worse.
What’s the most important thing that potential clients need to understand about you, your identity, and the experiences of Black sex workers/ProDommes?
One thing would be to remember that we are people with lives outside of being ProDommes and sex workers; this is the job that we chose to do, but that doesn’t mean it’s our whole lives. Next to remember is that I am a woman, bigger than some males and most females but I still deserve the same respect that you are looking for and the same goes for other providers in this industry. We go through the same things anyone else does from different ethnicities, races, and religions, sometimes on a worse level being BIPOC and it shouldn't be diminished or overlooked. It should be celebrated.
What's something that brings you joy as a Black sex worker and ProDomme?
The power that I am just naturally given, domineering and majestic at the same time! I enjoy making clients of all different backgrounds, cultures, and status relinquish themselves to me in various ways of their pleasure but in my total control. Being a Black Pro Domme is so empowering and fun with what we are sought for; the different shapes and sizes we come in are any man’s dream when you compare us to the typical demographic of ProDommes that the majority imagines. We walk into rooms and command attention without saying a word.
On your socials you describe yourself as a ‘blerd’. What do you nerd out on? Can you share some of your special interests/nerdy passions?
I mostly nerd out on Japanese mangas and anime, gaming, as well as technology. Since I can remember, I’ve always wanted to know how things worked or how it was made or put together in order for it to work the way that it does. I naturally gravitated towards computers and mobile phones and with the ever-changing advancements, it just piques my nerd senses even more.
When it comes to anime and mangas, the fantasy and animation is what I nerd out on. The colors, flow of action, and different mediums used to lift the panels off of the pages of mangas is what captivates me. I get lost in that world and gaming goes hand in hand with it all. I spend hours playing games like Elden Ring, Modern Warfare or Black Ops and Mortal Kombat, along with the editing that I have to keep up with being an adult content creator.
Is there a book, blog, tv show, or movie that has had a major impact on your life? (feel free to geek out about it!)
Made me think really hard about this one… I’d have to say the wrestling shows like WWE and the others are something that had a major impact on my life. Coming home from school and basketball practice, I would run home to make sure I caught every show. Watching these tall, athletic, muscular but sexy women wrestling and just putting on a show kind of allowed me to be comfortable in my own tall and athletic self. Competing on a big stage with men just excited me, like playing a championship game in high school to win State.
This love in turn is now my job in a sense. Most of the sessions I am booked for are wrestling or boxing! Men smaller and even bigger than me basically are offering themselves to fulfill my own fantasies and I love it here!
What’s a fun, weird, or silly piece of trivia that you happen to know?
Women can see colors better than men, but men can track fast-moving objects better. Also, a group of unicorns is called a “blessing”.
My favorite scent is: Beautiful by Estee Lauder.
What would be the title of your memoir? The Golden Amazon: A Journey through a Twisted Jungle.
The dorkiest thing about me is: I can talk about food all day and make it sound erotic.
I get a big thrill out of: Providing satisfaction through different forms of physical contact outside of the norm.
We'll get along if: You like to laugh and go with the flow!
Together we could: Rule the world and eat like the kings do
The last pic I took on my phone was: Me flexing in the gym mirrors.
Twitter: @allurekendra
Instagram: @kendraallure
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